Several years ago I read Choosing to Cheat by Andy Stanley. And I quote one statement all the time. It might be a paraphrase by now. But here goes: saying yes to one thing is saying no to something else. So good. So true.

I’m really struggling right now with saying “no.” I am genuinely humbled and honored by invitations to speak at conferences and churches. And Lora and I jokingly kid about the way I say every opportunity is an amazing opportunity. But every opportunity is an amazing opportunity

In doing a little self-examination and schedule-examination, I feel like I might need to scale back a little bit in 2009. The problem is that 2009 is virtually booked with speaking engagements. In the past week I’ve turned down a couple invitations. Yes, they were a “amazing opportunities” It’s so hard to say “no.” But I also feel like it’s a way to say “yes” to my family.

I’m living in the tension of being a good steward on both fronts. And I’m certainly counting my blessings that it’s a tension I need to manage. I love to be at home. And I love to speak to pastors. Just trying to make sure it stays a win/win and doesn’t become a lose/lose. And I’m learning that I need to error on the side of family!

Thanks for letting me process!