Been reflecting a lot on the Ted Haggard situation. Very sobering. Obviously, a lot of new information has come out since my last post on it along with a long string of comments.

I still stand by my post. When something like this happens we have to look in the mirror. We ought to thank God for his grace. It is a reminder of just how human all of us are. There is a saint in every sinner and a sinner in every saint. And we ought to pray about it more than we talk about it.

I want to add an observation to the mix: know your tendency.

It’s been interesting to see and hear the variety of responses to the situation. And it is a reminder, once again, of one of my theological linchpins. Job 11:6 says, “True wisdom has two sides.” In other words, truth is found in the tension of opposites. Where there is no tension there is no truth.

So here is what I mean by know your tendency.

John 1:14 says that Jesus was full of grace and truth.

Grace means I’ll love you no matter what.
Truth means I’ll be honest with you no matter.

Jesus was the perfect combination of both. Unfotunately, most of us aren’t

So here is my question: are you more grace-oriented or truth-oriented? Where do you fall on the grace-truth spectrum? I think it is important to know your tendency because it will dictate how you to respond to situations like this. And the truth is: one without the other doesn’t cut it.

Grace without truth is Christianity without a backbone.
Truth without grace is Christianity without a heart.

Think of it this way.

Salt is a combination of two elements–sodium and chlorine. By itself, sodium is a unstable metal that is highly flamable. By itself, chlorine is a deadly poisonous gas. Combine them and you get a useful food staple known as sodium chloride or salt–the only family of rocks eaten by humans.

By themselves, grace and truth are dangerous. Put them together together and they are a power moral persavative.

So my advice is this: know your tendency!

If Ted Haggard genuinely repents then I don’t have a single doubt that God will completely forgive him. Who am I not to? The way we treat those who have fallen is sometimes heartless! We shouldn’t put anyone on a pedestal before they fall and we shouldn’t throw them under the church bus when they do.

Now let me flip the grace/truth coin.

This isn’t a time for us to be politically correct. The world is repulsed by that. So am I. We need to fess up when we mess up. We need to tell the truth, take it on the chin, and let the chips fall where they may. Lies were told. Sins committed. Lots of people were hurt. And leaders are called to live by a higher standard. The more authority the more accountability.

Humbling and sobering. That’s what this situation is. Here is my biblical prescription: read Psalm 51. It is David’s confession after a very high-profile moral failure. That is my prayer for Ted Haggard. That is my prayer for myself. That is my prayer for you.

All I know is this: I am challenged to guard my own heart.